Tuesday, February 08, 2005

The Negative That Became a Positive

Ok, I've kept you in suspense long enough, huh? I'm devious that way at times. Seriously, I have not posted this story because I have been dreading telling about it. A funny thing has happened though.....the more I contemplate what I witnessed the more convinced I am that what I witnessed impacted me for the good much more than it did for the bad that was there.

Remember I told you about having the blessing of hearing Patrick Mead at the OCU Lectures and his lesson on "Be Prepared to Give an Answer". He proclaimed that JESUS is the answer, and it was a powerful presentation! I had never heard Patrick before and I was impressed very much by his heart that he exposed as he was talking to us. He loves the Lord! Ok, so after the last amen had been said I spoke to some old missionary friends that had been in West Africa the same time my family was there (Wendell Kee) and then I made my way down to the front to meet Patrick and tell him how much I appreciated his lesson. I got there just in time to hear a man from Texas introduce himself and then in a very calm voice begin to verbally abuse Patrick in a very hateful manner. He never raised his voice, I guess thinking that if he did then that would somehow make it acceptable to say the things he was saying. At first I had to pinch myself to make sure I was not in the middle of a horrible nightmare. When I realized that I had all my senses, my first thought was something like "man, I can't wait till this idiot gets thru and Patrick puts him in his place". I guess I just exposed my heart and priorities, huh. Anyway, when this "preacher" finished, Patrick just smiled at him and patted this guy on the shoulder and said kindly "go with God". I didn't realize it at the time, but Patrick was giving a living lesson on "Jesus is the Answer". It gets worse. When that yea-hoo left, a much more younger full of fire preacher was ready to take his turn at the plate. His venom was much more adversarial, and he didn't even try to disguise his anger by talking in a civil voice. Very quickly he was almost yelling at Patrick, and speaking very hatefully at him. As Patrick would respond very calmly in love, this guy (oh how I wish I could tell you what I really call him in my mind) would just get more angry! :) I started looking around for a camera for some reality TV show, or better yet for Jerry Springer to jump out from behind the crowd that was gathering. You see, these men didn't want Jesus to be the answer. They were all hyped thinking Patrick was going to go old-school on everybody and tell us what we needed to be ready to defend doctrinally....how to give an answer to all those "in error". Patrick continued to walk the walk, and just kept saying things like "I understand, go with God" which just about caused this fella to look like one of those cartoon characters where he starts turning red at his feet and it moves up his body to the top of his head and smoke starts coming out the top. It was a living, breathing foot washing........and this guy didn't want any part of it. It finally got so bad that Shon Smith (dean of Bible Dept at OC) finally stepped in and was very kind and Christ like himself, but he escorted this young want-a-be away. I was the closest person to Patrick as they walked away. Still speachless, all I could do was just reach out and give him a big ole bear hug. I did find the words "stay the course" coming out of my mouth into his ear. He was very gracious and said for me not to be concerned, he had encountered much worse. WORSE!?!?!?! Are you kidding me? They were about an inch from beginning to try and look for stones on the floor to start chunking at him! And you know what the irony is.........if you asked them about it, they would probably very pridefully tell you that they were doing it in the name of the Lord. The LORD! Patrick never quit showing them he was prepared to give an answer, and the answer was to walk in the steps of his Savior, Jesus Christ. He turned every cheek he had that night. He spoke with grace and truth. He acted in love.

I heard a great lesson that night. I witnessed in action a much more impacting lesson, a more powerful lesson.........one I shall never forget. I know I am called to love and forgive those two brothers who were full of hate, because I am no better.
Can I confess to you that it isn't easy? But I know He will give me the grace I need to do that. He gave it to Patrick, so I know He will give it to me also if I allow Him to.

Jesus really is the answer. No matter the question, no matter the situation.
Just Jesus.

18 Comments:

At 10:13 AM, Blogger Fajita said...

I am hardest on the people who think I'm wrong and aren't afraid to say it. I get pretty anxious when I feel threatened. I like the calmness and God with God-ness of this guy. I want that for every situation.

 
At 10:53 AM, Blogger believingthomas said...

Great perspective on this. I hope that I wouldn't have missed it in my anger. It seems that anyone who actually says they are telling "the truth in love" never seem to act it out. I am assuming that these two clowns/pretenders would say this.

 
At 1:09 PM, Blogger Donna G said...

I hope I can remember this the next time someone disagrees with me this openely. I hope I can remember it the next time I disagree with someone else. I hope I can remember it when someone attacks someone that I love in disagreement. Losing our temper never wins an argument. Spitting accusations is never attractive. Jesus is truly the answer. Thanks David!

 
At 8:29 PM, Blogger jettybetty said...

Whew, I didn't know what to expect you to write for your negative--but I am so impressed by the way Patrick handled this--he can preach and model Christ! I am encouraged!
Betty

 
At 8:44 PM, Blogger Josh Graves said...

Here is the biased comment of the week. I am Patrick's son-in-law, I'm a grad (M.Div.) Student in Nashville. I heard (through others of course) about this incident.

Those who know Patrick know what a gift he is. A guy with two doctorate degrees who could be doing research in Europe for a living has chosen to preach the gospel.

He and I have some different views on some things, but I could not be any prouder to call him father-in-law.

This story is another example that the life we lead is far more important than "what we believe to be true." I know the two go together, but I also know one is more impt. than the other.


JG

 
At 10:53 AM, Blogger Keith Brenton said...

Greg, to your comment: I'm comfortable with Jesus calling people "snakes." He knew their hearts. I don't. I'm a little cautious about throwing the term around ... or even using it sparingly!

 
At 11:22 AM, Blogger David U said...

Keith, like you I don't toss around terms like "you brood of Vipers". I know Greg doesn't either. Like you said, Jesus saw all the way thru to their hearts.
We can't possibly do that. Having said all of that, I think we are able to witness the fruit that their heart bears over time. When you continue to see ONLY rotten fruit over and over again, it tells you something about the tree. We ALL have some rotten fruit, but hopefully most of us have some good fresh fruit in there too.

Thanks for all your comments!
DU

 
At 5:32 PM, Blogger Keith said...

Reminds me of the stoning of Stephen in Acts 7, and he, like Jesus, asked God to not lay this sin to their charge! Actions speak louder than words and Patrick spoke volumes. Thanks for sharing this experience...I got to hear about it over a Lenny's sandwich and remembering how irritated you were with the stone-throwers!
Keith

 
At 3:41 PM, Blogger dutro said...

Just got back in town, just now reading the two posts, and my thoughts turn to the objections raised. What were they? How could anyone object to "Jesus is the answer"? Do you remember what they were objecting to?

I don't mean this to be argumentative, but were they actual nutcases, or was there a perceived danger in the message?

 
At 4:01 PM, Blogger David U said...

Don, as I said in my post, they wanted a doctrinally correct institutional sermon on being ready to give an answer to all "our" stances on any number of issues....you pick em. Jesus has nothing to do with any of that! :) So, they wanted to call him on the carpet for not preaching the "right" kind of sermon.

End of story. Yes, they were nuts.

 
At 9:09 AM, Blogger Keith Brenton said...

David, I just wanted you to know that this post of yours helped me respond to a visitor on my blog today in a more positive way: Fair Enough. Thanks, brother.

 
At 9:30 PM, Blogger JP said...

Wow David, thanks for guiding me to this post. I also had the opportunity to hear Patrick (he came to our church). I listen to the sermon he did at our church (Angels) What a godly man, a funny man too. I pray that when I come a across brothers like this in my travels, that I can handle it with grace as well. Good blogging!!

 
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